Letter to the Editor: Use your phone to connect but not to gobble up Thanksgiving time

Today’s mobile technology has enabled us to connect like never before. 

That said, it is important to remain mindful of its ability to gobble up our time. The key is finding balance, particularly in the presence of others. Here’s food for thought as people prepare for Thanksgiving gatherings.  

The constant ping of new messages and status updates can be distracting. Consider silencing devices or putting them away in a purse or coat pocket, especially during mealtime. Unless you are expecting an urgent call or message, it is OK not to respond to incoming inquiries instantaneously. Additionally, practice patience with others when their responses seem a bit delayed, as they too may be celebrating with their family and friends. 

You might also consider resisting the urge to post photos in real-time, and subsequently check engagement numbers and respond to comments. Instead, strive to stay in the moment and post the content you captured once everyone has gone home. 

Go ahead – use mobile devices and smart home technology to conquer a new side dish, set timers, check weather and traffic conditions, video chat with far-away family members or check when guests have arrived at the front door. Then set technology aside and indulge in actual facetime. 

You will be grateful you did.

Chloe Gay
store manager for UScellular
Quincy, Illinois